Monday, June 13, 2011

The Nursery (with photos)!

Now that our rocker/ottoman is here, which Robert picked up this weekend, I can officially say that Trey's room is complete (minus him, or course)! So here are the long awaited nursery photos with a little commentary on how we designed his room.

To be honest, this was one of my favorite parts of pregnancy. (I mean, how often is it that your husband allows you to completely transform a room from top to bottom?) I personally had way too much fun completely re-doing and designing a room, but we also did a lot of it ourselves (and together with family and friends), and on a budget. There are definitely lots of great memories in the time put into getting his room ready for our little man, and hopefully one day he'll appreciate the details. Probably not, but at least we had fun planning it all for him.

Trey's room is our front bedroom that used to function as an office. We combined the office with the back guest room and now we have a nursery! Check out the older post here on how we added crown molding, a chair rail molding, and painted. And this post details our fabric selection.

So, to give you the official online walk through... let's start with his door displaying this custom-made diaper wreath designed by our good friends Michelle and Collin Newberry, who knew we would love the elephant accent. I had no idea what I was going to do for his door art, and this was one of those perfect surprises that turned out far better than anything I could have planned. Michelle made it (with Collin's help) for our first baby shower back in March.























Here's the view when you first walk in. Our color pallet is gray, white, navy, and baby blue with chrome/silver accents. I think the fabrics are very sophisticated with the exception of the baby blue argyle, so perhaps it can best be described as a custom preppy baby boy look with a subtle aviation theme. The top half of the walls are gray with the bottom white, made to look like molding on the bottom which we never got around to installing after we realized how nice it looked just painted with the chair rail molding divider, and after we realized how tired we were after installing all the other molding. The ceiling is a subtle cloud blue. All very neutral, with the little boy accents making their appearance in the fabrics, window treatments, etc. Most of the furniture is also white or light blue, so we kept the basics (walls, furniture) very neutral.


Robert's mom made the bedding and window treatments. I love the navy panels with the cornice boards in argyle with the navy trim. She also made and monogrammed "Trey" blanket I have draped over the rocker.

I love, love, love this rocker and ottoman. It's the one item we really went all out on - no skimping here. It swivels, rocks, glides (the ottoman does the same) .... and is pretty much is the most comfortable chair ever, at least we think so. Which is a good thing considering we figured we'd likely be spending the majority of our time in it. We custom ordered it from Stockland Baby and Kids Furniture in Vestavia. It's the Little Castle Capri rocker/glider. We picked a nice neutral fabric with a subtle damask print. I really didn't want the rocker upholstery to scream nursery, so we picked something more neutral and sophisticated that we could picture using in other rooms of our house once our nursery days are over, primarily because this baby has a nice 10-year warranty. We paid extra to scotch guard the mess out of it in hopes we get all 10 years (if not more) out of this piece. It was probably our biggest budget item, but my parents also generously gave us some funds toward it, so in the end we felt justified in "going all out" on this one piece. Also, we saved in several other areas, and I'm really pleased with our decision making and how everything worked out.


This wall features the changing table, rocker, and his wall shelf. 


Robert's mom made the changing pad cover with our navy minky dot fabric. The changing table we bought from the French Flea in Helena, an antique/consignment store that I think has since moved locations (to Pelham?). The owner has a great blog and does a neat job of refinishing antique furniture with a french country look. This is the only piece I didn't repaint myself. (Yes, I know you're not supposed to paint/sand/refinish while pregnant, but I did.) I first saw the piece on her blog, we went to take a look, and I loved it immediately. She gave us a great deal. It was the first piece we purchased, and has great storage underneath. It's a little shorter for a changing table but we're not tall people and it works perfectly for our heights.

I knew I wanted the furniture to have a custom, mix-matched look of re purposed, antique pieces. This is the most french country of all the pieces; the others are more shabby chic and are all white, but all of them blend with the various curved accents and other details.

You'll see the argyle paper on several pieces. It's actually wrapping paper ($2 a roll) I found at Tuesday Morning and realized it matched the argyle fabric almost perfectly. I used it on various container pieces (couldn't find baskets I loved) and other areas for a custom look. I had all intentions of papering the inside of the drawers of the changing table and side table with it but opted not too since I want these pieces to work for a little girl later (if one enters our family) and I was scared to brand it with the little boy argyle print by papering the drawers.

I was going to have Robert custom-make his wall shelf, but found this one at Hobby Lobby for something like $11 after using a coupon, so we really couldn't have made it for any cheaper than that anyway. I painted it white and replaced the wooden pegs with silver airplane knobs (also from Hobby Lobby). The family tree goes back four generations and details Trey's heritage on both sides and namesakes. I also found it at Tuesday Morning before we were even expecting. Kinda wish it was blue instead of green but decided to bring in a few green accents on this shelf with the airplane frame, pacifiers, and ribbon. They frame has an ultrasound pic of Trey we may soon replace with a true baby pic. The pacifier idea I stole from my friend Christina because I thought it was so cute. The small silver cup was Robert's baby silver cup with his name (also Trey's name) that his mom passed down to me. It was originally purchased by his maternal grandmother. The two "T"s I got at Hobby Lobby and spray painted silver to accent. The boxes were a gift from a co-worker and allow you to store his first tooth, lock of hair, and bracelet as keep sakes. The glass elephant I found with Trey's Aunt Liz at an antique shop in Lexington, Kentucky. Couldn't resist.


The smocked white infant John Johns I got from Zulilly. It was one of my first purchases for Trey. The metal "T" was a gift from mom originally for me but I decided to re purpose it for Trey's shelf. The 'It's a Boy" sign is for Trey's hospital door. I also stole this idea after seeing my friend Christina's sign for her son, Harrison. I ordered this online from Holly Days, based in Birmingham, and had her custom design the colors to match his room. Since my handwriting is so not cute at all (didn't get that gene most girls do), I've already recruited Emily to write in his stats.


The side table I found at an antique store in Lexington, Kentucky while shopping with Robert's sister Liz. It was a nice, solid mahogany piece that was stained which I repainted. I also sprayed the hardware in our silver accent paint. The small model airplane on top I also got at Hobby Lobby and spray painted silver. The lamp base we found on clear at Lowe's (silver/chrome matched perfectly) and I recovered at $3 thrift store lamp shade with his fabrics and trim. I used spray adhesive to recover the shade after googling several ways to recover. Figured the spray adhesive method would be the easiest, and it was pretty easy-peasy.


Got the moses basket for his books at Walmart since we don't have a bookshelf (no room in the room). But I also made sure to get a side table with a bottom shelf so we could store some of his books there. The cute elephant bookend is from some sweet college friends.


The far wall contains his crib. We actually purchased this on craigslist and scored a great deal. We touched it up just a little but overall it was in great shape. It's a convertible that converts to a toddler bed. I knew I wanted one with a solid wood back, and I really love this one and the way it looks with his cute, custom bedding.


This wall also has a window for some nice natural light, and for now we have his swing and bouncy seat situated in this one free corner of space, though I suspect they will probably end up in other areas of the house (wherever we are) once Trey arrives. 


The burp clothe wreath on his closet door was made by a co-worker. It's too cute for me to yet take apart to use the precious monogrammed burp clothes. The big blue boy on the closet door handle is for our mailbox once Trey arrives. I got it from Homewood Antique Marketplace from a vendor called Spider Lily Designs who has a facebook page. This is just her basic baby blue boy bow but she does take custom orders.

And here are some close-up shots of the crib.




Right now we have the boppy and Trey's elephant from his Mimi in his crib. I absolutely love the bedding on his bumpers, crib skirt, and crib sheet - all made and monogrammed by his Mimi. I think the fabrics we selected really turned out so well. I honestly had no idea how it would all look together but I love it and think it will definitely grow up with him.

Here's some close-ups of the aviation wall art prints above his crib and on either side of the window on the far back wall.








We ordered these prints online from an aviation photographer (website here) who happens to be a private pilot like Robert and who had some of the best black and white shots we found after a pretty extensive online search. Robert wanted most of the prints to be of the P52 World War II Bomber (his favorite plane), and I really loved the way the grouping of the four turned out. I think these will also grow up with Trey. We know we wanted a subtle aviation theme (once we figured out we were having a boy) that was mostly classic and from there came the silver/chrome accents that are spread throughout the room. It's also a nice tribute to Robert and his love for flying. Apparently, several of our good friends had no idea Robert has his private pilot's license. He got it in college while co-oping for his engineering degree. He was working full time at the co-op and had some free time on his hands at night and decided to take flying lessons. We flew most frequently in college, on occasion renting a Cessna at the Tuscaloosa airport and going up for a fun flight over town. He took me up the night he proposed and we also flew to the Bama/Mississippi State game junior year. Lots of fun memories of flying, so I'm glad we could carry over the theme in Trey's nursery.


I love this armoire! It's one of my favorite pieces in the room. The detailing is so beautiful. We got it on craigslist and I completely repainted it so the dark detailing would shine though. I also distressed it a little. The precious owners used it for a TV cabinet and had already made the shelf. Robert lowered it for me so I would have more space for his cute hanging clothes (only the super cute ones go on display in here!) and also to give me the storage underneath. I paper the shelf in the argyle wrapping paper (after googling how to do that with Modge Podge) and love how it turned out. The hanging bar is original to the piece. I loved the curved accents at top and all the storage space it provides. We've got a mixture of cloth bins (from Wal-Mart) and papered cardboard office storage bins up top with his toys, diapers, etc. The Trey letters are from some sweet college friends, and I also papered these in the argyle to match. Again, this was one of those situations where I had no idea what I was going to hang on the wall above the armoire and his name letters were perfect for the space. 


I didn't plan to but ended up storing his bumbo seat in the armoire since the color matched so perfectly. We also have all his monogrammed and hand-made blankets in there also with a prayer from my mom which she framed for him and his sweet Nike tennis shoes from David, Emily, Khalil, and Seth.























The chandelier and rug are both from overstock.com. I debated a white shag rug for months, wondering if it was crazy to put one in a nursery. But I ultimately knew that was what I loved and wanted most and so after reading some reviews on this one I went with my gut and purchased it. It is super soft, has been so easy to keep clean (so far), and I think will be great for playing on and tummy time when Trey gets a little older.

The chandelier I also love and is the only silver/chrome accented item in the room I didn't have to spray paint myself. (The frames for the aviation art are black wooden frames I got at Old Time Pottery and painted.) For that reason alone I love it. The ceiling medallion came with the house but we repainted it (and the ceiling) to match our colors in the room. They are not very expensive though and can be purchased at Lowe's or Home Depot and really make a light fixture standout. The shades I recovered in the argyle and trim and love how it all ties in. I was going to go with a white chandelier but think this silver one is so much more appropriate for a little boy.

And a final shot of the rocker because it's amazing and where I will be spending most of my time once Trey arrives. I'm not going to lie - I already spend a lot of time in it. Robert has caught me in Trey's room just rocking away thinking and praying for our son. I love his room so much already but really can't believe how much I already love him, and how much more the Lord loves him. Our prayer is that Trey would know God but most importantly be known by God.

Saturday, June 11, 2011

Shower Part Deux - UAB Style



Have I mentioned that I work with some of the nicest, greatest people in Birmingham? My wonderful colleagues at UAB have been so excited about Trey's pending arrival ever since we announced our pregnancy. They even threw me the sweetest baby shower on May 20, and boy did I ever feel loved!

A big thank you goes out to my co-worker Melanie (who made the precious wreath above - now hanging on Trey's closet door, and also took these awesome pics), my co-worker Cappy, and my boss Daphne who together hosted the shower. I am truly blessed to also call these ladies, and so many of my other co-workers, close friends and am grateful for the office friendships I have developed over the last four years at UAB.

Had to also post the cute evite below since it was precious.



The ladies truly outdid themselves decorating our penthouse conference room with vintage books and toys and lovely hydrangeas. I don't believe that I've ever seen that room look so cute!




The shower was potluck (sweets and salads) over the lunch break, so everyone came with goodies to share, and boy did we have the yummiest spread! It doesn't take much to get our crew together to eat, socialize, and celebrate good times.











Everyone was so generous! We got so many wonderful baby items. I am enjoying writing my thank you notes and reminding myself of how blessed I am to have such great colleagues and of just how much support we have!






A donor relations colleague I know through our professional association who works at Hamilton College made this precious blanket for Trey and shipped in from New York for the shower! Such a special surprise.




Friday, June 10, 2011

Baby Showers Galore!



Our sweet church family threw us a baby shower on May 21st. I am so thankful to my precious hostesses who completely outdid themselves with the food and decorations. Doesn't everything look just beautiful! And it was all so delicious too. A huge thank you to Hallie, Ruth, Brenda, Sara, Laura Lee, and Monica for all the effort they put into making me feel so special and showing Christ's love to our growing family!


I had to also include a pic of the invitation because it was just so precious.


I was especially thankful to have so many members of our family attend this shower. Robert's mom and sisters all made long trips from South Carolina and Kentucky with their families to be with us to celebrate. It was wonderful to not only have them there for this special time but to have their immeasurable help with setting up the nursery, sorting through gifts, and making sure everything was all set for Trey's arrival. We made so much progress in one weekend it was unbelievable. Between this shower and another my sweet colleagues at work threw the day before, we had so many great gifts for Trey to put out and set up.


I was also so glad to have my mom, Big Mama (grandmother), and David's sweet girlfriend Emily (who made the trip from Tuscaloosa) there. I love these family shots Monica took for us.


While posting all these shower pics I've discovered it's really hard to have pictures made of you while opening gifts and not end up looking like your mouth is wide open the whole time! Let's just say I was giving lots of "ohhs" and "ahhs" over all the precious things Trey received!



Trey's Aunt Rebecca got him his first little backpack with his name monogrammed and with little airplanes to match his daddy, and Trey's MiMi gave him this precious stuffed elephant with his named monogrammed on the ear, which is currently hanging out in his crib waiting on him.




We got so many cute burp clothes and great books and lots of wonderful other items. I am so grateful to our sweet church family for truly showering us with blessings - not just physical but with the prayers, encouragement, love, advice, and support they have shown the past eight months and will no doubt continue to show as we embark on parenthood.


Oh, and I just love the wipe case and custom shoes Trey's Aunt Liz made for him. Perfect for gameday!


Thank you sweet church family (and your adorable kiddos) for coming out to the shower!

 

Thursday, June 9, 2011

T minus 20 days (aka, 36 week update)

Had our 36 week doctor's appointment today and my OB officially set our induction date for June 29th!

Holy moly.

We're going to have a real, live, hungry, needy, cute, little, baby - outside of the womb - in 20 days! Let the official countdown begin.

We are very thankful for another good report. Trey again passed his BPP ultrasound test, moving enough to make them happy with his viability even though he was mostly asleep the whole time. He was doing the cutest thing swallowing in his sleep though. It was so neat to see it on the ultrasound. He's head down and basically crammed in there from head to toe. Not much room to move around these days.

My amniotic fluid levels were again good. So was my blood pressure. This was also the first time I've had a vaginal exam during pregnancy - to check for dilation. Let's just say there was none. I think the word "closed" was used one more than one occasion. I gained two more pounds this week to total 152. Which is actually right at 30 over pre-pregnancy weight. (I did the match wrong on the l35 week post and was only 28 pounds above pre-pregnancy last week.)

And here's the 36 week pic of the ginormous belly...scratch that...baby. Next week they'll take his measurements during the ultrasound so we'll get an idea of just how much he's weighing in at two weeks before birth.



On the home front I made major progress this week in getting ready for his arrival. Mostly because I started freaking out after feeling different pains and pressures down there. (Not sure they were contractions but maybe just pains from him dropping; can't really tell if he has but regardless things are feeling a little different these days.) Of course, it could be related to the four miles I walked Tuesday night, after which I was pretty sure I was going to die. There was definitely some prayer that I would make it to the end of the trail and back to my car without my legs falling off. I think it's just getting harder to carry the extra weight for that long, so I'm probably going to have to adjust my exercise routine to less activity more regularly.

Regardless, as of Tuesday night our bags are now packed and ready to go.

Detailed the car this weekend. (Only to have it randomly egged while parked on our street in front of our house! Seriously, who does that? Needless to say, the outside also got a good cleaning this week.) And installed the carseat!

We also had our list childbirth class this week. Monday night we took an Infant CPR course at UAB, actually a seperate course offered independently of the childbirth class series. It was Robert's idea and was probably the best $10 we've ever spent. I hope we never have to use it but I'm so glad to now at least be prepared. It only lasted about an hour and a half, and we even brought home the blow-up doll so we can practice if we need too. Or if any of you parents to be out there want to borrow it you just let me know. I'm sure you can find the American Heart Association practice videos online.

We've ordered a new camera since we're actually going to have someone cute to take pics of, which should be arriving from Amazon tomorrow.

Robert is picking up our long-awaited rocker and ottoman tomorrow, so the last piece of the nursery will be complete, and then I promise I will post nursery pics this weekend! (Just had to wait until it was "finished"!)

T minus 20 days!

Robert S. Adams, Jr., PE



It's official! My smart and dedicated husband is now a Professional Engineer licensed by the State of Alabama. His PE card came in the mail today. We actually found out a couple of weeks ago when he received his letter notifying him that he has passed the PE exam he took back in early April. He told me by texting me the pic below several fridays ago when I was at work. Once I realized what the letter was, I was freaking out trying to scan for the word "passed" in the pic on my iphone and then was so excited to see that he did, indeed, pass.



We're not only so grateful that he passed but also thankful to just know the results. We weren't sure if we'd find out before the baby came since these things can take months to report back. This is a major professional accomplishment for Robert, and it's nice to have it complete before we roll into the stage of parenthood. You have to work under a licensed PE for four years before you are even eligible to take the test. Plus you have to have successfully passed the FE test. Luckily Robert passed the FE right before receiving his undergraduate degree at UA. Just this spring he became eligible to take the PE, and he studied so long and hard and faithfully for months on end to prepare. I'm so grateful the Lord blessed his efforts. Proud of you, Rob!

Friday, June 3, 2011

35 weeks

I haven't been the best at posting pics of my growing belly. It's frankly getting a little too large to fit into the camera frame. But, for your viewing pleasure, here are the pics from 34 and 35 weeks respectively.





It's a good thing you can't see my feet because they've become quite the swollen mess these days. Good thing Robert loves me unconditionally because one look at my "Shrek feet" (as my friend Christina fondly dubbed her swollen preggers feet) is a crazy scary sight. Maybe it's the 99+ degree weather, or the fact that I now weigh a whopping 150 pounds (32 over pre-pregnancy weight), or maybe it's just that this is par for the course at 8 months pregnant. But there's one thing for sure, I'll definitely be glad to have my normal feet and body back in two to four weeks.

That's our new catch phrase now - "two to four weeks" - because we're on the official countdown. Basically, Trey could be here in as early as two weeks (if he comes on his own, aka I go into labor, anytime after 37 weeks) and no later than four weeks from now if we end up with an induction at 39 weeks.

I can definitely tell a big difference in my ability to handle pregnancy that came on somewhere in week 34/35. It's much harder to get though a work day these days. There seems to be a whole new level of fatigue that pretty much lasts 24 hours, and carrying him is honestly just harder - because let's face it, little buddy is heavy! The swelling of the feet doesn't help either - but it is a nice excuse to prop up your feet on the couch after a long day at the office. Again, this is probably all normal for this stage, but it did catch me by surprise how "useless" (My words, not Robert's) I became almost overnight. Good thing most of our baby prep is done because I don't think I'd have the energy to tackle it now.

Honestly, I'm just ready for him to be here. To meet our sweet little man, for sure, but also to finally not be pregnant any more. Which is a pretty amazing thing considering the concept of giving birth has been mostly freaking me out during the majority of the pregnancy. I think the swollen feet, fatigue, and other symptoms you have in the last weeks of pregnancy definitely get you ready to say, "Sure, I'll push that 7 plus pound baby out of my vagina. That's a completely rational idea, doc." Talk about an attitude transformation.

But funnies aside, we are mostly just so thankful that we continue to have good weekly reports from the doctor. I had my 35 week appointment yesterday and Trey continues to look great (kicking up a storm, good heart rate and breathing, etc.). I'm really not worried about him because of all the activity he always has. I feel him move so often. My amniotic fluid levels were good and so was my blood pressure. As I mentioned, a little swelling (really just in the feet - and more so the right foot than the left - which Robert's dad says is actually normal because of the way the uterus puts more pressure on your right artery; also, Trey is situated on my right side, still head down thankfully) started settling in last week and is pretty much here to stay, but it does go down, thankfully.

I have been staying active as much as possible. My sweet friend Katie Crawford (20 weeks pregnant with a baby girl!) is keeping me on the walking trail! We did 5 miles last Saturday which almost wiped me out but I'm determined to keep it up when I can. Haven't been as faithful this week since I've been fighting a cold and wasn't taking any meds until the doc yesterday said to go for it. It's so nice to now be able to breath!

We are actually feeling really good about being ready (as ready as you can be) for Trey. His nursery is complete aside from the rocker/ottoman, which we should be able to pick up this weekend. I need to do a couple more loads of laundry for him (new clothes from the baby showers), and Robert put his swing and bouncy seat together this week. We got the car seat and plan to give the cars a good clean this weekend so we can run by the Homewood fire station and have them install the car seat bases for us.

My other goal this weekend is to go ahead and pack our bags. It's probably time we had them ready to go by the door...just in case.

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Ryan's Graduation



My baby brother Ryan graduated high school last week. I was nine was he was born and remember going to the OB appointment with my mom the day we found out he was a boy. It's amazing how time flies when the youngest - who happens to be the tallest - leaves the nest to take off for college. We are so proud of Ryan and the young man he has become and his heart for the Lord. He has lots to look forward to in Tuscaloosa for the next four years, and I know he'll be a great uncle to Trey. I remember when David graduated high school four years ago and I leaned over to Robert and said, "We'll probably have a baby by the time Ryan graduates."And low and behold we almost do!


Ryan's graduation, coupled with the fact of being (and feeling) every bit of 35 weeks pregnant, and that this week UA torn down the dorm I lived in my sophomore year of college, has me feeling a bit old these days.


Nothing like a graduation celebration dinner with the family at Stix to cheer you up. Turns out you get extra food for being pregnant if your Japanese chef is nice, so clearly we should have been hitting that place up for the past eight months.


Here's Ryan getting his diploma from his principal.


We always gave Ryan a hard time because Kyle and I both won the principal's award (or whatever they called it) at Clay-Chalkville our senior years (me mostly for being a nerd; Kyle mostly for being cool, nice, and useful and always helping the administrators with their technology problems). David was just always big man on campus who everyone loved, and so we always told Ryan he had a lot to live up to to uphold the family tradition of being tight with the administration. Turns out he and Mr. Laney are pretty tight. We may have won the award but Ryan somehow gets his principal to pick up his tab at Waffle House as a random act of kindness kinda thing. Go figure. Actually, I probably take a free meal at Waffle House over a dusty award mom has in the attic anyday, so maybe Ryan's on to something.



Here's "Sunshine" (as his friends have been calling him due to the long hair - a reference to that quarterback from California in the movie Remember the Titans) with mom and dad. He says he's keeping it long until his mission trip to Costa Rica this summer so he can get authentic dreds, then he's shaving it off.



And with David, Emily, and Big Mama (I swear Kyle was there - not sure where he was when we took the pic.)




Congrats, Midge! We're proud of you!